Notes/Domino 6 and 7 Forum : Frameset woes in R6 (Really need some help here)

I have been absolutely punishing myself with the task of trying to figure this one out and I haven't, as of yet, done so.

Here's my problem..... BTW: It's Notes Client only.

I have a frameset that contains three panes and looks like this....

Because of the way this forum posts, I had to use funky characters or else it TRIMmed all my spaces out. It looks better if you copy/paste it into notepad and replace all "_" with " ".

#############################
#navFrame#_mainContentFrame_#
#________#__________________#
#_name1__#_Topic_related_to_#
#_name2__#_name1,name2,etc__#
#_name3__#__________________#
#_name4__#__________________#
#________####################
#________#_detailsFrame_____#
#________#__________________#
#________#_Topic_Details____#
#############################

Basically, when a user clicks a name in the navFrame (which is a notes view), the document from the navFrame is opened up in the mainContentFrame, using a different form with an embedded view, to show more details about the name1 document. If the user then clicks one of the docs in the embedded view, it opens in the detailsFrame.

This all works well, except for a couple problems.

First, I would like to automatically load the first document (from navFrame) into mainContentFrame when the user opens the frameset because currently, the mainContentFrame and detailsFrame are blank when the frameset is opened.

Second, If a user follows the expected path, they will click a name in navFrame, then click one of the docs in the embedded view in mainContentFrame, and that will show them details in detailsFrame. If the next step they take is to click a DIFFERENT name in navFrame, mainContentFrame loads properly, but detailsFrame still contains the details that were loaded in the previous step that were only relevant when name1 was clicked in navFrame.

I would REALLY appreciate any help as I'm really stuck on this.

so far, I've tried the postOpen event of a view, trying to use NotesUiView.SelectDocument, but it's not the same as clicking the document I guess, so that didn't work.
I've also tried to change the view open property from "go to last document" to "go to top row". That didn't work either.

Thanks in advance everybody.